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No little girl dreams of being a birthmom....

We don't sit around as children dreaming of the day we will become a birthmom. Typically, a turn of events in our lives leads us down the road to becoming a birthmom.  It's hard enough  walking the road as a birthmom alone. Walking with someone who understands makes the journey a little easier.

Lani and Coley (the creators of BirthMom Buds) hope that the Buddy System will provide you with someone to walk with so that you do not have to travel alone.

There is a short form at the bottom of this page, you simply fill it out. We will then try our best to match you with a birth mom close in location, as well as sharing interests similar to your own. As soon as we have a "buddy" for you, we will email each of you and give you their email address and information. Our hope is that you will bond as friends and birth mothers and be able to ease each other's pain a little.

If you are pregnant and making an adoption plan, we have a special mentoring program for you! Please fill out the expecting form to receive a mentor. Also, if you and your buddy have lost touch and you would like a new buddy, please do not fill out the form again ~ simply email BBuds and let us know!


 

The Buddy System Form

 

First a little information about yourself!

What is your first and last name? (You may use an alias if you feel more comfortable in doing so. If you do not feel comfortable giving us your last name, then please give us your last initial.)

What is your email address?:

 


What State do you live
in? (This is to help match you with a buddy):



Age and Birth date: (Your birth date is optional, but we would love to remember you on your special day!)
Age:   Month:Day:Year:



Second, a little information about your adoption!
What is your child's name? (optional)

What is your placement date?

 


What is your child's birth day? (if different from placement date.)

month day year

If already placed - is your adoption:
Fully Open
(basically anything goes)
Semi-Open
with visits (you met the adoptive parents before and during placement
and now receive pictures and updates)
Semi-Open
with mail(you receive mail and updates, but all contact is through a third
party)
Closed

Any thing extra you would like to tell us about yourself or your adoption (circumstances, was the birth father involved, do you have other children, are you married, etc.);



Now just a little more information to help us get to know you better!

Hobbies/Interests:






Favorite Movie:

Favorite Candy Bar:

Favorite Color:

Favorite Season:

Last question!
How did you hear about BirthMom Buds?


 




 




 

 

 

Due to the "gotta blame someone" attitude that prevails this decade, we unfortunately feel the need to post some disclaimers for BirthMom Buds. BirthMom Buds is not responsible for the content of linked sites and or any advertisements due to pop up adds. BirthMom Buds is a not for profit organization and we seek the use of free resources to better assist our members. We hope to be able to remove such resources in the future with  generous donations . Thanks so much for your understanding.

The Buddy System is copyrighted and owned by BirthMom Buds, 2003-2007.